Silence of love

#Silence of #love.

The passing of MK Lalithambika has left an irreplaceable void in the life of her son Sabji, a man whose talents and pursuits have shaped him into a well-rounded individual. 

Lalithambika was not just a mother but a constant presence in Sabji’s life, particularly in her later years when illness confined her to bed. Her immobility was a challenge for both of them, but Sabji took it upon himself to ensure her comfort, tending to her needs with unwavering love and dedication. Despite his many commitments as a writer, orator, and Secretary of the Alochana Cultural Centre, he remained devoted to his mother, carefully balancing his roles while making time for her care.

For the past six months, even though his world became smaller as he devoted more time to his mother, Sabji still managed to visit Sarvodaya Library, his sanctuary of knowledge. Yet, his time there was cut short as his heart pulled him back home, knowing that his bedridden mother awaited his return. It was a silent ritual of love — his mother, even in her weakened state, waiting for her son, and Sabji, mindful of her, cutting short his library visits. 

Their bond was unspoken but powerful, a testament to the deep love that exists between a mother and her child. Today, however, she has left him, and with her departure, Sabji faces a new reality—one where the familiar wait is no more.

The grief Sabji bears is one that even his vast life experiences cannot alleviate. The silence of his home without his mother’s presence will be deafening, and though his mother is no longer physically waiting for him, her memory will linger in every corner of his life. 

The words, “Life of the dead is in the memory of the living,” ring true, and Sabji will carry his mother in his heart forever. While his days may feel lonelier, the lessons of love, care, and sacrifice he learned in those last months will stay with him, guiding him forward. His mother will live on, not just in his memories, but in every word he writes, every story he tells, and every life he touches with his work.

 "A mother's hug lasts long after she lets go". 

-K A Solaman

Comic relief

#Comic relief

M.V. Govindan’s recent statement declaring that CPM party members found consuming alcohol will be expelled raises eyebrows due to its impracticality. If strictly enforced, this would likely result in a significant reduction of party membership, as alcohol consumption is common among many individuals, including party members. 

The mechanism to identify those who drink, such as using a breathalyzer, is both unrealistic and intrusive. Expecting one party member to police another’s private behavior is unreasonable and bound to create distrust within the ranks. 

Moreover, many members might take medicines that contain alcohol as a base due to medical conditions, making it difficult to distinguish between medicinal use and recreational drinking. This renders any method to identify alcohol consumption unreliable and flawed.

Govindan’s remarks seem more like an attempt to draw attention rather than a well-thought-out policy. His comparison is akin to the laughable proposal of selling appam via the K-Rail project, making it clear that such statements often lack seriousness. They instead provide the public with comic relief rather than addressing real issues within the party or society. Instead of focusing on such impractical declarations, attention should be directed toward more meaningful discussions and reforms within the party.

-K A Solaman

Juvenile crime

Juvenile crime

Juvenile crime in Kerala has escalated due to several concerning factors, primarily drug abuse, the influence of violent media, and government inaction. 

The easy availability of drugs like MDMA, ganja, and alcohol has become a serious problem. This stems from ineffective government policies that have failed to stem the flow of these substances into schools and colleges. Youngsters are increasingly drawn into the vicious cycle of addiction, leading to violent outbursts and criminal behavior. 

Furthermore, the glorification of violence in Malayalam cinema and serials is another major factor. Depicting violence as a means of heroism or revenge has a profound impact on impressionable young minds, encouraging them to resort to aggression to solve problems.

The government's inaction compounds the issue. Despite clear signs of a growing drug problem and increasing juvenile crimes, there has been no concrete action taken to curtail these trends. 

Politically influential individuals and student outfits associated with major political parties often escape justice, weakening the law enforcement system. 

To address this, the government must prioritize strict regulations and policies to curb the inflow of drugs into the state. Schools and colleges need enhanced vigilance, awareness programs, and counseling services.

 Additionally, a crackdown on crime in entertainment media and swift, unbiased judicial action against all offenders, irrespective of political connections, is essential for bringing discipline and security back to educational institutions.

-K A Solaman